bpo-40334: Rename PyConfig.use_peg to _use_peg_parser (GH-19670)

* Rename PyConfig.use_peg to _use_peg_parser
* Document PyConfig._use_peg_parser and mark it a deprecated
* Mark -X oldparser option and PYTHONOLDPARSER env var as deprecated
  in the documentation.
* Add use_old_parser() and skip_if_new_parser() to test.support
* Remove sys.flags.use_peg: use_old_parser() uses
  _testinternalcapi.get_configs() instead.
* Enhance test_embed tests
* subprocess._args_from_interpreter_flags() copies -X oldparser

Lib/subprocess.py

@@ -326,7 +326,7 @@ def _args_from_interpreter_flags():
     if dev_mode:
         args.extend(('-X', 'dev'))
     for opt in ('faulthandler', 'tracemalloc', 'importtime',
-                'showrefcount', 'utf8'):
+                'showrefcount', 'utf8', 'oldparser'):
         if opt in xoptions:
             value = xoptions[opt]
             if value is True: